It is Wednesday, and that's what I talk about on Wednesdays.
But then I started thinking about something else…
about a month ago I got a notification on my iPhone that someone liked one of my pictures on Instagram, I didn't recognize the name so I clicked on the notification and it brought me the picture. Except, it didn't say that person liked it. For some reason it really stuck in my mind. I even went through my followers and the people I follow to see if it was one of them. But there wasn't a user name that was even close.
By now I figured it was a blog reader that went to my account, didn't find anything interesting, and decided not to follow. Me being me, I had to see who this person was. Since the iPhone saves all your notifications I clicked the name instead of the whole notification. Yea, it wasn't a reader.
It was my ex's current girlfriend. The one he dated while he was still dating me. I'll be honest, I was pissed and I considered doing something very immature. Luckily my maturity got the best of me and I decided to make my instagram private. But then I made it public again. The way I see it is that if she wants to compare our lives, she can. It's only going to make her miserable. (Because I found an amazing guy, not that my whole life is better).
The reason I'm telling you guys about this is because I think it is a common thing to lash out at other girls. I've been dating Ken for 3 years, so that whole thing with my ex happened over 3 years ago and my first instinct was to be mean to her. That isn't right. And I highly doubt that she was just looking at my page to catch up. I know I'm not alone with this one either. I think too many woman would rather blame the other woman than just admit they're dating a pig.
Listen here ladies, if you man cheats on you with another woman you should be mad at your boyfriend, not that girl. She might be a slut (depends on the situation) but no matter what the situation is, He hurt you. He is the lying piece of shit. He broke your heart, not her. So please remember who that anger is really towards.
Luckily, I don't have to worry about that stuff anymore. See when you start to date a decent guy you stop having to worry about him cheating on you. It really is one of the plusses of dating someone who truly cares about you.
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isn't that always interesting when such a person does that. honestly, you should look at it as a compliment. she is apparently wondering about you and jealous that you've got something better and she's stuck with a douche bag =)
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